prolifeproliberty:

jassmineincense:

Again it disturbs me that people in their early twenties are ashamed of being virgins as though it should be normal and expected for middle schoolers and high schoolers to be fucking lile crazy particularly when those are the most vulnerable amd likely to be taken advantage of by adults. This world’s fixation with sex is disturbing

Reminder:

There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin at ANY stage of life. Humans do not NEED sex, and there is nothing wrong with you if you don’t want sex or just aren’t ready for it yet.

If anyone tries to pressure you into having sex when you’ve said no, walk away from them. They are not worth your time. If anyone tells you that sex is a need rather than a want, they are probably trying to pressure you or justify their own issues.

And please, DO NOT shame people for being a virgin as though it means they “can’t get a date” or “nobody wants them.” It could be that they’re waiting for the right relationship (and/or marriage), it could be that they have different priorities at the moment, or it could be that they just aren’t interested in sex.

Also, it’s OKAY to have standards. You’re not being “picky” if you want specific things in a relationship. Keep looking until you find someone who measures up. Don’t sell yourself short, and don’t think you need to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship.