“Someone asked me this week about “discerning” the person to marry. Here’s the deal: Most young Catholics (and other Christians) are overthinking this. People change over time. Find someone who wants to be a saint, who you like, and who is reasonably attractive. Marry them.
The fact is that you’ll grow together. If you’re rooted in a common faith, you’ll both change over time, but the things that matter will remain constant.
There’s an argument that if you don’t find *just* the right person, marriage is going to be really hard. Guess what? Marriage, no matter what, is going to be really hard. That’s the game, playa. The important things are repenting, forgiving, and praying.
Most of us have to do much more repenting than forgiving.
In my own life, I can say that neither I nor Mrs Flynn are the ppl we were when we got hitched at 23. So much has changed. In many ways we’ve grown together. In other ways we’ve grown or changed as individuals. What’s the same is Christ. the Holy Spirit. The Father.
And we’ve faced some serious trials that we only got through because of the grace of the sacrament. There have been times when both of us were predicting we’d probably not last. Or seasons of isolation or sadness. Without a common foundation in Christ, we’d be toast.
Obviously, none of this applies to NY Rangers fans or Iowa fans. Don’t marry those guys.”
“ddlg is about love and caring” uhhh. did it ever occur to you that loving and caring for your partner is a normal thing that is included in normal healthy relationships, and isnt exclusive to ddlg??? did it ever occur to you that you can watch disney movies and eat mac n cheese with your partner without having to roleplay that youre his 3 year old daughter??? stop trying to make excuses for a pedophilic and incestuous kink. “ddlg is about caring and playfulness” bitch no one is stopping you from owning stuffed animals and liking cartoons? many adults have childish interests? why do you have to pretend to be an abused child? children should not be in romantic/sexual relationships with their caregivers, and emulating that in your relationship is not some quirky cute thing. its fucking horrific and ugly.
my favorite era in history is the one where people discovered you could make cartoons out of typography and newspapers would run articles that were just like “today dennis the intern figured out how to draw a dog with the typewriter so here it is”
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