thylovelylionheart:

*grabs microphone* Despite what songs nowadays might lead you to believe, casual sex is not a healthy coping mechanism for dealing with emotional loss or a bad breakup!! If you’re not over someone it isn’t fair to the person you’re rebounding with or healthy to you to hook up with someone else!!! You’re literally conditioning your body to associate the release of oxytocin that occurs during sex with those feelings of emotional loneliness and loss!!!! So many songs nowadays are like “man I’m sleeping with this person when I really just wanna be with you” and that is!!! not!!!! healthy!!!!!!!!!!!!!