One of these days people are going to get that Feminism isn’t about deciding what the right kind of women is, but is about creating an environment in which women’s choices have agency, can be put into action and are respected, not matter what those choices are.
When feminists stop telling women who make the choices they don’t want them to make that they are acting on “internalized misogyny”, this may begin to ring true.
As of now, it does not.