That’s the thing that really irritates me with all these “no shaming” movements too. If you REALLY felt good about what you were doing you wouldn’t care what I think.
I’m allowed to think your piss kink is gross, I’m allowed to say it. I don’t have to pretend it’s normal and celebrate it to spare your feelings. Doesn’t mean I’m trying to stop you from doing it just because I think you shouldn’t.
Demanding my acceptance is a product of your own insecurity.
People ride my ass over my religion all the time, I’ve never once thought “hhhhhh stop shaming me for being a Christian :////” because I have no shame in what I’m doing and I can easily stand by it.
I don’t have to like what you’re doing, me having opinions that are contrary to yours isn’t me not minding my own business. You demanding my acceptance is you not minding your own business.
Idk, seems fucked up to me that people shame you for religious beliefs. Unless they’re hateful or are used as an excuse for prejudice or violence, people shouldn’t give you crap for religious conviction. Not a good argument for shaming imo
And I think the anti-shaming stuff isn’t about demanding acceptance, it’s about keeping your non-acceptance to yourself. Be grossed out by piss fetishism all you like, just don’t bother people who like it because you don’t, eh? And probably more importantly, stop thinking of people as lesser or dangerous perverts or whatever just because they engage in something you find unseemly in private.
Like I don’t think that you have to be insecure about jacking off to buying bread to dislike people mocking you for it.
I’m not talking about mocking and harassing, I’m talking about using my blog to say “hey, I don’t like this” and everyone hopping on my dick to tell me why I have to just shut up and accept it, as if I’m not allowed to have a negative opinion about something or say reasons why I would recommend abstaining from it. Voicing an opinion isn’t an intrusion on someone else, someone else choosing to engage with my opinion to tell me why I’m not allowed to have it is an intrusion on me.
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